A few days ago I read a post by Andrew Hyde about his extreme minimalism project. (I think Ken Yeung tweeted it <- credit) Struck by the contrast between his fully functional arsenal of 'things' and the stuff I own that I haven't touched in forever, I had all the feelings one does when confronted with one's own abject, lazy and wasteful consumerism. Luckily, the feeling I settled on was inspired, which isn't bad at all. Remarking about Andrew on Twitter, I received encouragement from Brian Shaler as well as Andrew himself. So, busy though I was this weekend with writing a strategy deck and shooting an interactive spot, I was resolved to make some deep cuts in my possessions. So far, I've lessened my load by two large bags of clothes - tomorrow I go after the books, movies and games.
The following are some notes on what I experienced while purging my stuff, and some advice on how to play along if you suspect that you might not be as in control of your possessions as you'd like to be.
Letting go: I own things that I haven't used in 6 months, and that I haven't actually needed in quite a bit longer. I bought them, I wanted them, I made an investment, but at some point they stopped being things that made my life better or easier, and became baggage. The ROI maxed out and started to reverse. I had gotten all of the positive use I ever could out of these things and now I was just lugging them around from residence to residence. (Or, much worse, I wasn't getting the value I should out of the space I have in my apartment because I had to maneuver around them in the close, on the floor, in storage, etc.)
Some guidelines for getting started if you'd like to do this yourself:
- What haven't you used in 6 months? Some things are seasonal wardrobe, or camping gear or the like, but others are just there. You don't want them anymore, but there's been no catalyst for getting rid of them. Here's the catalyst: get rid of them.
- What wouldn't you buy today? Today is a great day. You should look your best, do something you love, and help build a better tomorrow. Which of the things in your life are more about yesterday than today. Likely you could just let them fall off and never even wonder what happened.
- Wondering if you want a thing? Put it in the middle of your life. Would you wear it to work tomorrow or out tonight? Would you use it today? Would you feel good about putting it in the center of your living room.
- One nice thing is worth 5 or more crappy counterparts. It never fails for me that buying a more expensive thing that I absolutely love is much more cost effective than buying a cheaper version just because it's seems like a bargain, and then trying to reverse-engineer interest. For clothing, nicer things fit better, and tend to get better with age, rather than wearing out. For electronics, I either feel amazing about a new gadget on day one, or I might as well just leave it in the store. Can't back into success with this one.
- You already know when you don't have use for a thing anymore. Look at it. Do you have genuine affection for that item? Do you want to tell a friend about all the things that make it great? Pick your favorite thing. (Is it an iPad or a running shoe or a phone or a chair?) Put the questionable item next to it. Do you want to immediately remove the questionable item because you're embarrassed to be seen with it in front of your iPad? Get rid of it.
Some highlights from my experience:
- 5 years ago I bought a package of socks that don't were too big. I stil had every single sock. They were in the sock basket next to my favorite asics athletic socks, and for all this time had only served to lie to me about when it was time to do laundry.
- 3 years ago I bought a pair of cordoroy pants. They're brown and I thought it'd be great to have casual brown pants. I have never worn them. Not once. As of Sunday I won't own them anymore, and I'll be better for it.
- 10 years ago I bought a brown suede overcoat. It made me look slightly pimpish. It was awesome, and it's time has passed. Sad (but appropriate) to see it go.
Some traps I fall into:
- Nice Clothes: I dress pretty casually to work and socially, but I have an occasional need for blazers, slacks and suits. I also like variety. So I have a tendency to buy several nice things, only wear one or two, and not come back to them until they're out of fashion or don't fit me anymore. This goes double for dress shoes, of which I had several pair that I don't love, and was able to part with on little thought.
- Gifts: It's ok to get rid of a gift. It's okay to regift it, it's okay to sell it, and it's okay to throw it out. You shouldn't be wasteful or rude, but don't be trapped by guilt either. It really is the thought that counts, and after that it's just a mass and weight.
- Repeat Items: I like shoes; Mostly casual kicks that tend to be interchangeable. I have 4 pairs of white casual shoes. I wear only one of them, and only every so often. In this process I got rid of all the others, and might soon get rid of the remaining pair. Shoes wear out, giving them a natural ending. I shouldn't be looking to replace them before their time, otherwise I probably didn't care for them too much in the first place.
Some allowances I make for myself:
- I am okay with having a shelf with shorts and shirts for sports. I play softball and basketball (though not as regularly as I'd like these days) and it's just fine to have some old, comfortable stuff around for this purpose. That being said, I'm going to keep it to just the one shelf. I do not have need for every baggy t-shirt I've ever come accross. I just want a few options and I'm good.
- As I've said, I like variety. I'm okay with owning a few things in the same category, but I have to watch myself with this point as well. When I'm routinely moving some items out of the way to get to my favorites in the same category, they simply have to go.
My goal in this continuing process is to own things on purpose. To appreciate them and use them to their fullest extent until they wear out or become obselete. I want to get maximum value out of them, and then to let go. (Throw them away, sell them, or donate them to those who could still get some value out of them.) This is my version of conscious consumerism.